I will be most interested in responses to this. I actually gave up growing plums a number of years ago because I never found a satisfactory way to prune them. Every cut will be responded to with a hair-brush full of new growth. In the light of what I have learned since, my sense is that the trick is to concentrate on heading cuts, and recognize that any, and every, pruning cut will provoke the development of a thicket of new wood. (I am not going back now to experiment any farther, because I now live in an area with massive black-knot pressure from surrounding wild plums and pin cherries, and it is easier to concede defeat up front.)
Broomholm OrchardZone 5b in Nova Scotia